Comments on: The “Good Naija Wife” Guide http://naijaman.wordpress.com/2008/03/18/the-good-naija-wifes-guide/ Just another Ibadan boy keeping it real... Thu, 19 Nov 2009 22:49:57 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Enitan http://naijaman.wordpress.com/2008/03/18/the-good-naija-wifes-guide/#comment-134 Enitan Tue, 03 Nov 2009 05:47:44 +0000 http://naijaman.wordpress.com/?p=33#comment-134 So ri nkan ti mo m'an so!?! If dem carri dis sisi dem go place in conversation wey dem no like or dem no get proper answer for, na to da gbogbo E si rough na im remain! What "laughs" me is that when 1 indulges in (written) finger-pointing (a.k.a. lashing out?), it doesn't seem evident to them that they are giving evidence of their own enlightenment & therapy requirement(s). Walahi my brutha, U're a better MAN than I. So ri nkan ti mo m’an so!?! If dem carri dis sisi dem go place in conversation wey dem no like or dem no get proper answer for, na to da gbogbo E si rough na im remain!
What “laughs” me is that when 1 indulges in (written) finger-pointing (a.k.a. lashing out?), it doesn’t seem evident to them that they are giving evidence of their own enlightenment & therapy requirement(s).
Walahi my brutha, U’re a better MAN than I.

]]> By: Naijamama http://naijaman.wordpress.com/2008/03/18/the-good-naija-wifes-guide/#comment-128 Naijamama Thu, 04 Jun 2009 00:04:18 +0000 http://naijaman.wordpress.com/?p=33#comment-128 I obviously know a lot about you from this display of insanity...u remind me of that mad man down the street by Alade market... How dare you speak of Wiki when you know nothing about Enlightenment....speaking of the things a woman should...portraying her as a slave to a Master, you obviously have no regards for your MAMA, cause if you did, you would treat or perceive women with a little more respect than you do.... As a matter of fact, hun, you sound like someone who needs immediate therapy...not to be offensive...NO! Nothing like that at all. You simply have been hurt before and decided to take it out on the world...Right??? Ok!!!! it's reality....Always remember; Life’s a Biatcch...Wake up to the real world...Deal with your situation like a man and stop Bitching…leave that to Ladies….But then again your welcome to our world; you won’t be the first. I obviously know a lot about you from this display of insanity…u remind me of that mad man down the street by Alade market… How dare you speak of Wiki when you know nothing about Enlightenment….speaking of the things a woman should…portraying her as a slave to a Master, you obviously have no regards for your MAMA, cause if you did, you would treat or perceive women with a little more respect than you do….
As a matter of fact, hun, you sound like someone who needs immediate therapy…not to be offensive…NO! Nothing like that at all.
You simply have been hurt before and decided to take it out on the world…Right???
Ok!!!! it’s reality….Always remember; Life’s a Biatcch…Wake up to the real world…Deal with your situation like a man and stop Bitching…leave that to Ladies….But then again your welcome to our world; you won’t be the first.

]]> By: Naijaman http://naijaman.wordpress.com/2008/03/18/the-good-naija-wifes-guide/#comment-119 Naijaman Sun, 22 Mar 2009 20:13:35 +0000 http://naijaman.wordpress.com/?p=33#comment-119 Clearly, Naijamama knows Naijaman! I'm in Ilesha man! p.s. Wiki "Satire" when you have a minute luv! Clearly, Naijamama knows Naijaman! I’m in Ilesha man!

p.s. Wiki “Satire” when you have a minute luv!

]]> By: Naijamama http://naijaman.wordpress.com/2008/03/18/the-good-naija-wifes-guide/#comment-114 Naijamama Mon, 02 Mar 2009 06:28:43 +0000 http://naijaman.wordpress.com/?p=33#comment-114 Naijaman...r u in America or Ilesha...Obviously ur still asleep....Open ur eyes hon....this is the real ff**kng world...Be Aware Naijaman…r u in America or Ilesha…Obviously ur still asleep….Open ur eyes hon….this is the real ff**kng world…Be Aware

]]> By: Chelsea http://naijaman.wordpress.com/2008/03/18/the-good-naija-wifes-guide/#comment-102 Chelsea Tue, 21 Oct 2008 02:15:03 +0000 http://naijaman.wordpress.com/?p=33#comment-102 I am a new naija wife. I came to Nigeria for the first time in May and got married there in June. No one could of prepared me for Nigeria. No matter how much my husband told me it was beyond what I knew. Nothing was as I know what i am used to. Everything so different. I sure have so much respect for the women of Nigeria. I don't think I could live there more then a couple of months. You got 15 people living in one house and only one girl doing all the house work, cooking, cleaning and everything. The women work, and do all of the house work and up bringing of the kids?!! It nuts! Sorry, but the husband only goes to work? But the wife going to work plus all of of the above. Like why the husbands not help out? The husbands have the easy part. I am glad mine not like that, but then he would not have a choice. I am glad my husband more open minded and knows more of the western world. Although I think he will be quite shocked when he comes to my country. I could not even cook when I was there. I tried, but nothing I was used to I tried washing clothes by hand, ha too funny. I was better at getting water. It was like camping. No electricity except generator sometimes, no running water, no washers and dryers, ovens, microwaves and people constantly coming to the house day and night. It sure takes some getting used to. I can't wait to go back, nicest people I ever met and part of me loved it there and part of me is glad to be home. Yet, I can't wait to go back. I miss my husband and family there. The worst part was the traffic and the police demanding 20,000 Naira and trying to take you down to police station if you don't pay yet they try to act like they your best friend. As if we got that kind of money. At the same time I never felt more comfortable around anyone before then the people of Nigeria. I am a new naija wife. I came to Nigeria for the first time in May and got married there in June. No one could of prepared me for Nigeria. No matter how much my husband told me it was beyond what I knew. Nothing was as I know what i am used to. Everything so different. I sure have so much respect for the women of Nigeria. I don’t think I could live there more then a couple of months. You got 15 people living in one house and only one girl doing all the house work, cooking, cleaning and everything. The women work, and do all of the house work and up bringing of the kids?!! It nuts! Sorry, but the husband only goes to work? But the wife going to work plus all of of the above. Like why the husbands not help out? The husbands have the easy part. I am glad mine not like that, but then he would not have a choice. I am glad my husband more open minded and knows more of the western world. Although I think he will be quite shocked when he comes to my country. I could not even cook when I was there. I tried, but nothing I was used to I tried washing clothes by hand, ha too funny. I was better at getting water. It was like camping. No electricity except generator sometimes, no running water, no washers and dryers, ovens, microwaves and people constantly coming to the house day and night. It sure takes some getting used to. I can’t wait to go back, nicest people I ever met and part of me loved it there and part of me is glad to be home. Yet, I can’t wait to go back. I miss my husband and family there.

The worst part was the traffic and the police demanding 20,000 Naira and trying to take you down to police station if you don’t pay yet they try to act like they your best friend. As if we got that kind of money.

At the same time I never felt more comfortable around anyone before then the people of Nigeria.

]]> By: Johny http://naijaman.wordpress.com/2008/03/18/the-good-naija-wifes-guide/#comment-95 Johny Fri, 06 Jun 2008 13:57:03 +0000 http://naijaman.wordpress.com/?p=33#comment-95 Can someone tell Linda that there is no better pounded yam than the one actually pounded with motar. Personally, love should cut across the struggle to prepare this delicacy Can someone tell Linda that there is no better pounded yam than the one actually pounded with motar. Personally, love should cut across the struggle to prepare this delicacy

]]> By: Naijaman http://naijaman.wordpress.com/2008/03/18/the-good-naija-wifes-guide/#comment-53 Naijaman Wed, 19 Mar 2008 23:54:16 +0000 http://naijaman.wordpress.com/?p=33#comment-53 Sensi, she's talking about the picture of three women pounding... Hmmm... U are right, it does sound like something that should be expressed in French! Sensi, she’s talking about the picture of three women pounding…

Hmmm… U are right, it does sound like something that should be expressed in French!

]]> By: Enitan http://naijaman.wordpress.com/2008/03/18/the-good-naija-wifes-guide/#comment-52 Enitan Wed, 19 Mar 2008 23:31:18 +0000 http://naijaman.wordpress.com/?p=33#comment-52 I beg U'r pardon my sista(s), The trip 2 Iraq was by kind courtesy of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. The recycling U were asked if U UNDER-took, is by lascivious courtesy of "keri-keri Konangona" & "obukoko" (under STP) ......as will no doubt be elaborated on when either the chronicles of Okafor or, "The Law" & it's corollaries are expatiated on. Thanx 4 U'r patience & understanding. p.s. Teamwork? I thought it was called menage-a-something-else-or-the-other. I beg U’r pardon my sista(s),
The trip 2 Iraq was by kind courtesy of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
The recycling U were asked if U UNDER-took, is by lascivious courtesy of “keri-keri Konangona” & “obukoko” (under STP) ……as will no doubt be elaborated on when either the chronicles of Okafor or, “The Law” & it’s corollaries are expatiated on.
Thanx 4 U’r patience & understanding.

p.s. Teamwork? I thought it was called menage-a-something-else-or-the-other.

]]> By: Naijaman http://naijaman.wordpress.com/2008/03/18/the-good-naija-wifes-guide/#comment-51 Naijaman Wed, 19 Mar 2008 22:17:59 +0000 http://naijaman.wordpress.com/?p=33#comment-51 Lol... it's called team work. Lol… it’s called team work.

]]> By: Linda http://naijaman.wordpress.com/2008/03/18/the-good-naija-wifes-guide/#comment-50 Linda Wed, 19 Mar 2008 21:44:32 +0000 http://naijaman.wordpress.com/?p=33#comment-50 Lol! Why must we be pounding food with this archaic mortar and pestle Lanre, u don see us finish lol! Lol! Why must we be pounding food with this archaic mortar and pestle Lanre, u don see us finish lol!

]]>